It’s been five months since my mom passed away, and the pain feels fresh. Grieving is unpredictable; some days are filled with happiness, while others pull me into sorrow and guilt. I often reflect on my mom’s independence, which both inspired me and masked her struggles. I feel fortunate to have been there for her in her final days, especially when so many haven’t had the chance for a last goodbye. It’s crucial to remember that it’s okay to celebrate joy amid mourning and to check in on the strong friends around us who may be silently suffering.
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I AM PROUD TODAY
I AM PROUD OF MYSELF I am proud of myself. Indeed I am. When was the last time you said that to yourself? Out loud, in front of a mirror. When giving yourself that little pep talk before an interview, a new task, an exam, or afterward? We tend to expect others to be proudContinue reading “I AM PROUD TODAY”
I HIT A WALL !
A couple of months ago, something terrible happened. Even though I never spoke of it, the thought of it never left my mind. I’m the type of person who overthinks things before I voice them. I have a Ph.D. cum laude (with honors) in the ”Art of Overthinking”. Making up scenarios, planning arguments, and havingContinue reading “I HIT A WALL !”
I SAW THE SIGN !
Do you often find yourself having deja-vus? Or feel like you have been in a place before even though you know 100% there is no way that you could’ve been? What about dreams? Ever had these weird dreams that felt like a warning yet you’re not sure how to interpret them? Or you’re not sureContinue reading “I SAW THE SIGN !”
Just a touch of LOVE!
Dear readers, how have you been? It’s been quite a while since I last posted, my apologies. I needed a moment. As we are all aware, this pandemic is taking quite a toll on all of us. Trying to cope in this dreadful situation gets harder every day as we are uncertain of what toContinue reading “Just a touch of LOVE!”
IMMIGRANT…something different, something new!!!
”Wherever you are right now on the earth, you are not native anywhere”… –Minister Louis Farrakhan My name is Harrielle and English is NOT my mother tongue, yet I speak English more often than my own mother tongue. I grew up speaking Haitian Creole, French and Spanish. Mexican telenovelas were great teachers, it was theContinue reading “IMMIGRANT…something different, something new!!!”
LET’S TALK ABOUT THE N-WORD
At first, I did not want to express my opinion on this matter, but I was chatting with my friend Lynou and I thought I should share some insights, it concerns me too so why not? So let’s talk about the N-word. Just like I would not use the B-word when talking to a femaleContinue reading “LET’S TALK ABOUT THE N-WORD”
HYDRATE YOUR MIND 